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Closure vs. Closeness

“Do you need distance to get closure or closeness to wallo in denial. Hey, if you don’t like these two options figure it out and stop stringing the situation on. We got to stop punting on real life feelings. Start the process of moving forward with a better or solid foundation.” First you must be honest with yourself and with your partner or potential partner. Stop Lucying the football!

Who’s Choosing Who Runner!

“Is life always great right up until you decide to run? Where are you going? Are you running with shoes that are always on standby in your closet, because they are your just in case or comfy stand-ins? At a Birdseye view, this seems to be counterproductive to your perceived happiness.” Well, if anything can sit you down, is finding your one. So in this case, it’s worth it to store your shoes somewhere else for a moment and have that openness to be chosen—Who’s Choosing Who runner! Just a little thought bubble I wanted to share. Carry On. -Vanessa Muah!!🦋#MsTeardropsSpeaks

Reflect or Deflect

“Will you ever forgive the letting go…if so, can you also understand the why? There’s always the lingering WHY in every breakup.” Are you pausing to think about this right now? Okay, if so, is the pause a time to reflect and listen or deflect and avoid… either way, do it with purpose. Just a little thought bubble I wanted to share. Just a little thought bubble I wanted to share. Carry On. -Vanessa Muah!!🦋#MsTeardropsSpeaks

Can I Get A Cocktail!

“As women, we played the scene out 100 ways, but we never know how it ends, why is that? Is it because we know it’s wrong what we may conclude or the fact that it’s right and that that can be too much to bare?” Is there anything out there that doesn’t require thinking, because that can be a hill all by itself! Anyone for cocktails 🍹! Just a little thought bubble I wanted to share. Carry On. -Vanessa Muah!!🦋#MsTeardropsSpeaks

Twisted Pretzel

“Do you believe that you’re with the best you’ve ever met? What or Who are you measuring them up to, to get that data? Is this a fair place to start, seeing, that it didn’t work for you? And then again on the flip side, another viewpoint, is that they could have been the one that got away. Not from anything they did, but maybe, possibly, you weren’t at their level of growth.” This is such a twisted pretzel, time to reflect. Just a little thought bubble I wanted to share. Carry On. -Vanessa Muah!!🦋#MsTeardropsSpeaks

Yoga, Limber, or Timber

“Do you need affirmations from your significant other in order to grow? And if you don’t get that, do you then go seek it from someone else?” Maybe this would be a good time to try yoga… because your getting ready to get a lot of something new if you keep peeking through that window. Limber up, I mean Timber down. Actually you may need both. 😜 Just a little thought bubble I wanted to share. Carry On. -Vanessa Muah!!🦋#MsTeardropsSpeaks

Your Shoes Your Walk

“Do you really need to walk in someone else’s shoes to understand their life’s journey? Keep your shoes on and embrace your own walk. How you understand what someone else went through, is to truly know them and to hear their story by listening.” It doesn’t always have to be so dramatic, sometimes a life’s journey is simplicity, complicated, exciting, challenging, and most of all, a gratefulness of the opportunity to live it, in however it’s packaged. Just a little thought bubble I wanted to share. Carry On. -Vanessa Muah!!🦋#MsTeardropsSpeaks

So Let’s Think About It

“Hey, whatcha Thinking out loud about? Are you responding to your thoughts in real time? What’s the difference in an out loud thought, you know the saying, (Thinking Out Loud in whisper) vs. an in silence thought (Like To Yourself)? The difference is, what you’re doing with those thoughts. We as people are constantly creating ways to innovate, stimulate, accelocate our ideas into purpose. But where many of us fall short, is in the follow-up, the in silence thoughts, and in not thinking out loud enough for your thoughts to be heard, to be pushed.” Move it. You can’t always be sitting in thought, at some point, action has to take the lead to become relevant. Just a little thought bubble I wanted to share. Carry On. -Vanessa Muah!!🦋#MsTeardropsSpeaks

The Look Of Nothing

“If you’re not pushing yourself towards something, are you stopping yourself to sit in nothing? A lot of the time we really don’t know how to move forward in life because our minds are so tied up in the woulda, coulda, shoulda’s, of not just our own unfinished business, but that of others as well. If you haven’t figured out how to fix that past, it’s okay to reset, start new, and live life in this moment forward.” Stagnation is a thing, it’s like a cousin to procrastination. Just a little thought bubble I wanted to share. Carry On. -Vanessa Muah!!🦋#MsTeardropsSpeaks

What’s Your Peak

“How do you know when you’ve reached your peak of greatness. Is it in the bold moves you’ve made, or the short precise moments you’ve nailed? Whichever the case, congratulations! But there’s no time to plateau… There will always be another level to reach!” Your High-Five Moment may be too low. Accelerate! Just a little thought bubble I wanted to share. Carry On. -Vanessa Muah!!🦋#MsTeardropsSpeaks

What’s In A Lifeline

“There may be times in your life when you need a lifeline or another door to scale that speed bump or roadblock to get to what you need in life. But in that moment, you’re unable to find the way forward with all the manufactured obstacles in your mind and you’re now in a, what do I do next moment. You end that pity party, find your basic tools and you build an open frame of your vision to get to the other side of that moment.” Go on and have yourself a Tim the Tool Guy minute. I do! Just a little thought bubble I wanted to share. Carry On. -Vanessa Muah!!🦋#MsTeardropsSpeaks