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“Who has had you clutching your pearls all year? Round up or write down all those jewel knockoffs and auction them off to the highest bidder of Drama Creators. You are moments away from starting fresh in the new season. So, get ready to unclench and be open to receive what the rest of the… Continue reading Drama Creators

“People come into your life for a Reason, a Season or a Lifetime. For a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. Assist you through difficult times, provide guidance and support. Aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. For a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They… Continue reading Lifetime Lessons

“While Grace is carrying you through all that’s happening in the world today, will Mercy be on standby to get you to the end zone?” Because with this cycle of rinse and repeat on loop, allow Wisdom to flourish and take the wheel Carrie Underwood Likes.” -Vanessa

“Has your #1 gotten away or became distant close to the holidays, which puts everything in question?… Do you find it easy or tolerable to consider your #2 without regret as a backup plan? Does having a back up plan kind of becomes mentally the reason why the #1 choice didn’t work?” Be careful multipliers… Continue reading Can Options Become Scarce

“There may be times in your life where you need a lifeline or another door to get to what you need in life. In that moment, you’re unable to find the way forward and you’re in a what do I do moment. You end that pity party, find your basic tools and you build an… Continue reading Don’t Cry For Me Argentina!

“You can’t start a new chapter in your life, if you keep re-reading, re-writing, and re-living the last one.” Nikki Giovanni your state of mind and become a poetically forward thinker and move.”

“Do you need distance to get closure or closeness to wallo in denial. Hey, if you don’t like these two options figure it out and stop stringing the situation on. We got to stop punting on real life feelings. Start the process of moving forward with a better or solid foundation.” First you must be… Continue reading Closure vs. Closeness

“Is life always great right up until you decide to run? Where are you going? Are you running with shoes that are always on standby in your closet, because they are your just in case or comfy stand-ins? At a Birdseye view, this seems to be counterproductive to your perceived happiness.” Well, if anything can… Continue reading Who’s Choosing Who Runner!

“Will you ever forgive the letting go...if so, can you also understand the why? There’s always the lingering WHY in every breakup.” Are you pausing to think about this right now? Okay, if so, is the pause a time to reflect and listen or deflect and avoid… either way, do it with purpose. Just a… Continue reading Reflect or Deflect

“As women, we played the scene out 100 ways, but we never know how it ends, why is that? Is it because we know it’s wrong what we may conclude or the fact that it’s right and that that can be too much to bare?” Is there anything out there that doesn’t require thinking, because… Continue reading Can I Get A Cocktail!

“Do you believe that you’re with the best you’ve ever met? What or Who are you measuring them up to, to get that data? Is this a fair place to start, seeing, that it didn’t work for you? And then again on the flip side, another viewpoint, is that they could have been the one… Continue reading Twisted Pretzel

“Do you need affirmations from your significant other in order to grow? And if you don’t get that, do you then go seek it from someone else?” Maybe this would be a good time to try yoga... because your getting ready to get a lot of something new if you keep peeking through that window.… Continue reading Yoga, Limber, or Timber

“Do you really need to walk in someone else’s shoes to understand their life’s journey? Keep your shoes on and embrace your own walk. How you understand what someone else went through, is to truly know them and to hear their story by listening.” It doesn’t always have to be so dramatic, sometimes a life’s… Continue reading Your Shoes Your Walk

“Hey, whatcha Thinking out loud about? Are you responding to your thoughts in real time? What’s the difference in an out loud thought, you know the saying, (Thinking Out Loud in whisper) vs. an in silence thought (Like To Yourself)? The difference is, what you’re doing with those thoughts. We as people are constantly creating… Continue reading So Let’s Think About It

“If you’re not pushing yourself towards something, are you stopping yourself to sit in nothing? A lot of the time we really don’t know how to move forward in life because our minds are so tied up in the woulda, coulda, shoulda’s, of not just our own unfinished business, but that of others as well.… Continue reading The Look Of Nothing

“How do you know when you’ve reached your peak of greatness. Is it in the bold moves you’ve made, or the short precise moments you’ve nailed? Whichever the case, congratulations! But there’s no time to plateau… There will always be another level to reach!” Your High-Five Moment may be too low. Accelerate! Just a little… Continue reading What’s Your Peak

“There may be times in your life when you need a lifeline or another door to scale that speed bump or roadblock to get to what you need in life. But in that moment, you’re unable to find the way forward with all the manufactured obstacles in your mind and you’re now in a, what… Continue reading What’s In A Lifeline

“The chances you take overtime are they worth it. Sure, if they’re done with purpose and good trouble in mind. So, when you jump into thankful faith, and thoughtful faith, be ready to nail the landing, because we’re going to need all the faith based thoughts to get through what we’re going through.” Double up… Continue reading Purpose With A Little Good Trouble

“Is your silence an expression or an identifiable action better known as, no opinion. Earn or take your right to cement that non-opinion opinion to make it matter! If you keep sitting on the sidelines and having no opinion when there should be voices heard, we will end up in the situation of fighting for… Continue reading Is Silence An Opinion

“What’s your bright side of things? Do you dream in color, or do you dream in black and white? You don’t always have to sit in the negative chair, rehashing past failures or disappointments. Choose the other one, it may offer you the results you’ve been looking for.” Don’t just invest in time, do something… Continue reading What Do Your Dreams Say